NOTE: First off, I want to offer my apologies to my loyal readers; but I had to take a few days off from the blogosphere for a few days. For one thing, I've been doing a goodly bit of studying and research concerning my recently launched series of open letter styled posts on Game (it is truly surprising how much of this stuff you just instinctively know, and have to kinda relearn in order to explain all of it in a step by step manner to someone else; whew! Stay tuned for Vol. 2 this Fri), and second, I wanted to spend a bit of time with Ms. Brown Sugah and just kick it. Now that my batteries are recharged a bit, we're all set to go...
You know, after spending a bit of time in the (virtually all White) Manosphere, one thing becomes very clear: that the bulk and mass of the guys there, are what I call Marginal White Males - White guys who are, for all intents, in the middle of the social, economic and educational pack. They're usually at the least, nominally middle class, though some have more working class roots, have attended decent, but not stellar (read: elite) schools for the most part, aren't dumb by any stretch but aren't geniuses either, and who mostly work as cogs in the wheel, either in the private sector, or in quite a few cases, for the very government so many of them decry as the ruination of our entire way of life. Although there are obvious exceptions, for the most part, the denizens of this demographic in the Manosphere, are the de facto losers of the Brave New World in which we live - in more ways than just one.
As those of us who understand what I refer to as Human Sociosexual Dynamics is all about, Males as a rule tend to "clump" around the tails of the human potential bell curve; there tends to be more dullards and geniuses on the scale, than average guys. The reverse is true for Females; most of them tend to clump in the middle - and this accounts for their tendency to be moderate in their ways and actions, versus the more extreme tendencies of Males, for better or worse. All of this has major implications for the way in which they interact with each other, and how human societies have been formed around the world and down through the ages.
To put it bluntly, to be a Marginal White Male, today, in early 21st century America, is to be persona non grata for real. Why? Well, because, if I may be so blunt, America doesn't need them - at least not as much as they may have once did. And by that statement, I just don't mean economically, or even politically; I mean it in terms of sociosexually, too.
And that is where the rubber really hits the road, because for all the yammering on about "NAMs" and so forth, when you really get down to it, the MWMs are pissed that they can't get any - or, get what they really want. A perfect case in point along these lines, are easily seen in the blogs written by Whiskey, OneSTDV or Roissy, just to name a few. Although the latter personally has no problems getting any, he has legions of readers who are far from being able to say the same thing with a straight face, and that's despite Roissy's formidable knowledge in this area and his nearly four year track record of attempting to instruct so many of them in the Crimson Arts; the former's stock and trade is to register the outrage of the MWM; and the guy in the middle has been able to garner upwards of 100 posts from self-identified live-action 40-Year Old Virgins.
So, if all this is true, why don't these guys spend you know, like every waking minute talking about ways to improve their fellow MWM's plight - why don't they discuss Game a heck of a lot more than they do "NAMs", Liberals, SWPLs, the Ozone Layer, Islamic terrorism, Mexican immigration, "HBD", Affirmative Action, "Black-on-White Crime, Black Crime, Blacks Behaving Badly and "who's the fairest of them all" type stuff? Well, the answer to that question, once one really gets down to it, is easy:
Because, these guys know deep down, that they don't have what it takes to really learn Game. That's why.
And that matters, for a whole host of reasons. How so, you might ask? Easy.
For one thing, if ever there was a time that a Man had to have at least some understanding and knowledge of Game, it is now, when we live in an era where Women simply do not NEED a mate - that is to say, a Male with which she exchanges sex for survival. A half century ago in America - and by that term I mean White, middle class America - a Woman's mating choices were relatively limited. If she wished to live a middle class or above existence, she had to go for the "Company Man" archetype, and call it a day, whether she really loved him or not, to say nothing as to whether he truly "did it" for her. Nowadays, the "Company Man" just doesn't have the same appeal, and since Today's Woman doesn't have to settle for such a guy, she won't.
Secondly, MWMs are, in a very real sense, obsolete, and not just for the reasons cited above; they're obsoloete because their particular skillsets simply aren't enough in the world in which we live. Being a good provider, a "Nice Guy (TM)" and the like, just doesn't cut it; and not having the ability, and/or interest, to develop and display, Social Intelligence, puts one at a decided disadvantage in a Facebook world. The White guys on either ends of the Male Bell Curve spectrum - the Mark Zuckerbergs of the world, and the tatted out Bad Boy doing a stint in the joint - both exhibit traits that are indicative of high S&R value, in the sexual marketplace, insofar as Woman's sexual and mating needs are concerned. The former, as a result of a combination of luck and time, social position as a result of being born into the right family, and formidable above average intelligence (Zuckerberg's a Jew); and the latter, as a result of being born with natural Alpha Male traits; traits that some have associated with Dark Triad characteristics.
Marginal White Males have none of these things, and worse, in aggregate, have almost no chance to acquire them either, since their human potential for learning Game is limited, and not enough with which to attract Today's Women, who simply require more in the way of the kinds of traits Alphas display - hence their consternation on the aforementioned blogs, among a great many others throughout the (White) Manosphere. These are the guys who proudly refer to themselves as Reactionaries - who want to rollback the clock on human progress and accomplishment. Too bad for them, that not only is such a thing ever gonna happen, but that even if it could, they would still run the very high chance that they could wind up losers in the SMP. After all, history has always recorded that there have been more male reproductive losers than female, the latter greatly outpacing the former in this regard. Of course, back then, one big factor was early death of the males in the round of sexual competition, be that death due to fighting in wars, dying on workplace accidents, disease or indeed, being killed by a sexual competitor. In today's world however, all of these possibilities are moot, at best, since all of these things have been greatly ameliorated. Hence the strong presence on the Internet of such guys - the surplus of the Male side of Humanity.
In an age where American competitiveness has never been at such a high fever pitch - due in the main to the entrance of White Women and varied minority groups of varying stripes into meaningful areas of endeavor - merely being White and Male is no longer a virtual guarantee of entry into respectable and comfortable American life, a sureshot at a shot of poontang from that cute to hot White chick in school or on the job; moreover, merely being "nice/responsible/competent", alone, just ain't gonna cut it anymore out on the dating and mating Savannah that is the modern day sexual marketplace, for a whole host of reasons, among them being that not only can these things be done cheaper but fewer is needed to do them in the first place, but because Women can provide all of these things for themselves. The White Guy Company Man "brand", if you will, simply ain't what it used to be - that's so Ozzie & Harriet - and which explains why Mad Men is such a big deal amongst these guys. It's more than a matter of mere nostalgia; its a damning indictment of these guys' very limited range of potentials in terms of the limits of what they can actually be - the ultimate of irony per the HBD argument. Hence why you don't hear a heck of a lot about Game being discussed by these guys. Which is understandable; to do otherwise, would be a kind of form of cruel and unusual punishment.
And that's the real deal with the Marginal White Male, a tragic sight if there ever was one.
Now adjourn your asses...