Early this morning while I was doing my usual Internet browsing, I stopped by Sofia's blog
to see the following post:
The "photo" in question, features seven White Women, who seem to be formally dressed for an occasion, possibly a wedding. Ms. Sofia's commentary on the pic was as per usual, acerbic and surprisingly brief:
"A customer forgot this photo at my workplace, and I couldn’t resist sharing it: a group of marginally overweight women in their late 30s to 40s, all wearing mismatching, out of date spinster gowns, and the bride – replete with cropped hair! – is holding a pint. I feel like playing a game of “How many memes about modern women can you spot in a single photo?”"
After reading her blurb above, I then read the accompanying comments - and was deeply offended. But not for the reasons you might think.
No, I'm not mad that Sofia is on the 3,476 tirade against "modern Women", because no matter how she says what she says, she so often has insightful observations to offer about the sign of our times in this regard; there IS something to be said for the "coarsening" - to say nothing of the fattening - of Women in our age. I do not deny this in any way.
What deeply offends me, is her taking potshots at people who never did a thing to her while she hides behind the comfort of her computer, only allowing "sneak peeks" of her visage for her fanboy readers at her blog in order to maximize her attention whoring ways. I'm offended for putting her place of work/business at great potential risk by taking an otherwise private photograph of these Women and putting it on blast before the world in a deeply vain effort to "make a point"; and I'm deeply angered for a reason that Ms. Brown Sugah rightly pointed out this morning:
Women like Sofia do stompdown assholish shit like this, because Men allow them to.
I've noted previously here at the O-Files that I had done peeped Sofia's whole card a long way back
- that her major claim to fame in the (White) Manosphere is that she is a relatively young, and relatively hot(?) gal who has imbibed enough of the White Fratboy Koolaide to be one of the gang.
And she frequently does the very things she lambastes "modern Women" for all day, everyday - but she gets away with it, because the White boys allow her to - she's "hot", after all.
How many here have read how the (White) Manosphere types bemoan the "coarsening" of Western Women - the attitudes, the potty mouths, and totally unladylike behavior - then turn right around, and take a number in line to swing off of Sofia's left boobie? This shouldn't come as any surprise - after all, anyone who's spent any time at all reading this young lass knows well that she done put the "H" in Hypocrite five times over at this point.
Again, let me be clear. I don't have a problem with Sofia's commentary; I have a problem with the way she went about giving it. She could have found millions of publically accessible pics out there on the Internet, with which to make her point; that she chose to put a private pic on blast - one that came from her job - really says something about who Sofia is, as a human being. What she did was more than just being meanspirited - she's selfish, narcisstic and so incredibly stupid that even the Obsidian is damn near speechless. Sofia likes to present herself, however obliquely, as being "better" than the Feminists she wages her One-Woman crusade against; this episode here proves that she is, in fact, worse than they are.
At the very least, it's a case of water meeting its own level.
I recently discussed Ms. Susan Walsh
, owner of the blog Hooking Up Smart
; in my view, she is truly a Lady in every sense of the word
, and I have told Sofia's "boyfriend"(?) Aaron
, as much in extensive offlist conversation recently - indeed, I told Aaron that Sofia's arguments would be so much better received, to say nothing of attracting a wider audience, if she simply started to be a bit more highbrow.
Never in a hundred years, could I envision Ms. Walsh doing something like this - again, even if she was right in her points and observations. There is a such thing as propriety, decorum and just plain ole decency - Ms. Walsh (and I am proud to say, Ms. Brown Sugah
), have these; Sofia, clearly does NOT.
That no one - including Aaron himself - in the comments thread to said post above, stopped to say, "Whoa, Sofia - is it cool for you to be putting a pic from work on blast like this?"
, really says it all as to the nature of the people inhabiting the (White) Manosphere today, and I take no pleasure in saying this. Actually, it is deeply saddening to me. And how Aaron can go around as if nothing wrong happened, in light of what went down recently no less
, and NOT be ashamed of himself
, is beyond me, truly.
What is my point of bringing all this up, you may ask? Simple:
We've been talking a great deal about the Sexual Marketplace, Human Sociosexual Dynamics, and most of all, Game - all of which center on Women, and let's be honest, in their most physical of dimensions.
Today's post by Sofia, and Ms. Brown Sugah's insightful observations of it, just drove home to me the utmost and urgent importance of imparting to the students of my Dojo, that there is so much more to a Woman than a Big Booty and a Smile
- that if she isn't what King Solomon talked about in the Bible
, she's actually quite Hideous of the worst kind.
Remember this, all of you, O-Men: Character, counts. No matter how fine or hot or smokin' she is, if her character stinks, if she acts in a low manner, has a small mind, is a meanie - especially to people who are clearly "less" than she is, she is a Woman who cannot mean any good to you, and you would do well to get rid of her fast. I rarely tell Men who they should get involved with, but I have no truck saying, right now, that such a Woman isn't even fit to be mounted. Just GTFO from around such a Female.
With the quickness.
Now adjourn your asses...